Migraine Support Dog: Emotional Support
My migraine support dog is my emotional support. She provides comfort and Treatment that no prescription can prescribe. I bought her to celebrate getting my first real job out of college. She was a sick puppy when I got her. The vet told me she would die and that I shouldn’t get attached. Well, here I am with my feet comfortably resting on her 9 years later.
She is my first child. People told me that I would love her less when I had real children. That could not be further than the truth. My children love, hug, kiss, and even try to ride her. She sleeps in the nursery or outside their rooms during naps and at night…..a typical older, protective sister.
Migraine Support Dog
There is only one relationship that I have not felt guilty about or neglected because of my disease. It is the relationship with my Golden Retriever. My support dog has been a nurse to me for many years. She is by my side and loves me without explanations or apologies. She only requires that we be in the same room and that I cuddle her like the lapdog she thinks she is. When I am sick in bed, she joins me.
My support dog does not sleep in bed with me other than when I have a migraine. She has a sense when I am sick. She immediately jumps into bed and spoons me while I lay packed in ice. If I move my fingers, she begins wagging her tail and licking them to show me she’s watching me. Many days, I laid in bed, all day, with her unmoving.
Emotional Support Animal
An emotional support animal provides its owners with therapeutic benefits through companionship. An emotional support dog is a companion animal that provides therapeutic benefits to a person with a medically diagnosed disability. Support animals do not have to be trained for their role, but medical documentation is required to receive this designation. The dog is not considered an assistance (service) dog under the ADA if the requirements are met. Emotional support dogs do not have the intensive and specialized training that a service dog receives.
Chronic migraine is isolating and lonely. My migraine support dog gives me companionship and support that not many can provide. From the time my husband lets her out in the morning until he returns at night, she does not leave my side. I would crawl to the door to let her out if I needed to, yet she never asks me to when I suffer a migraine. She is right there with me if I am lying on the bathroom floor crumpled in pain. The pressure she lays against me is comforting. When I cannot open my eyes, I can pet and lay on her without having to talk or move. It is the simplest form of love.
Emotional Support Dog
My Golden Retriever received knee surgery and was gated into our family room when I had a migraine quickly rising one particular day. I was lying on the couch and needed to leave the space to retreat to my bedroom quickly. At that point, I wanted to escape the light of the family room and knew I needed medication, rest, and space between my children and me.
I don’t like my children to see me in pain, so I slowly raised from the couch when the migraine quickly went from a 5 to an 8 in intensity. My support dog immediately rose on three legs and started whining and crying. My husband followed me to our room, and I asked him if she was hurt, needed pain pills, or needed out, or what was wrong with my sweet dog.
After he checked on her, my husband explained that she was worried about me. We watched her go from sleeping on her bed resting her knee to being worked up about me being sick. She was upset that she couldn’t be with me and knew I was in pain. My support dog has this sense about her that tells her when I need her. She is not a trained therapy dog but my migraine support dog. Living with me, she has become my therapeutic dog and caretaker. She’s fantastic, and life wouldn’t be the same without her.
Do you have a support pet that helps you when you are sick?
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Beautiful! This post touched my heart :).
Thanks. I’m glad.
Love this post. Dogs are amazing healers, my dog is so similar to this too and he knows all my secrets. Give her an extra treat today, much deserved!!! 😉
Thanks. Healers come in all forms!
I absolutely love this post. My dogs hover around me now in a way they never did before. They want and need for nothing. I love that your dog curls up with you and know just what you need. You are very lucky to have that kind of love. Doggies are the best. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you!
Very awesome! We recently got a lab mix puppy, and I know we have a long, special relationship ahead of us. He is oblivious to pain so far, but I know that will change as he gets older.
Congrats on the new addition to your family. I hope your relationship is as special as mine 🙂
This post is beautiful & it touched my heart. I just lost one of my babies & someone shared this link with me. Dogs are such amazing healers & lovers!
Jennifer, I’m sorry for your loss but glad my post touched you. Thank you for commenting and please pass it along to anyone who may enjoy it like yourself.
“It is the simplest form of love. She’s just there, and that’s exactly what I need.” I LOVE this statement! So perfectly explains how I feel about my 3 dogs while I am having a migraine.
Sarah, that was beautiful written. I also have a dog who is my best nurse. Lulu is a mere ten pounds of companion. She happily spends her days lying quietly beside me on my bed, in the dark. I worry sometimes that her wee bladder might explode, because she seems to know when I shouldn’t get out of bed, and will simply wait it out. I had never really wanted a dog, but once it was suggested – and I saw those adorable tiny puppies – I couldn’t get it out of my mind and shortly thereafter, I got my first dog. Ten years later I cannot imagine life without her! Like you said, ‘it’s the simplest form of love”, and there’s no one or nothing that can replace it.
Please give your dog a head scritch for me:) Linda
This was so lovely and uplifting to read. After suffering one of my worst attacks last night this gave me hope that their can be light in this darkness. Everything you mentioned that your sweet pup provides for you when your sick are the same things I long for when I’m sick. There is no escaping the pain but having that little bit of comfort can make all the difference. It is reassuring to read stories from people who experience the same things you do as having chronic migraines becomes so lonely. I can’t wait to get a dog/companion now.
Thanks for reading Jessica! I’m sorry you suffer and relate. I am happy you found my blog and hope it helps. Please follow and comment often. The feedback makes a good community for us all. It’s a tough road and knowing I’m not alone helps.
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I have an akita we rescued, she busted in to me on the floor in the bathroom, and herded me back to bed, she is my protectress, nobody is allowed in. I REALLY wish I could find her original minion, rumor has it they had to go to a care facility, and she was shuffled for awhile…I wish I could let them know she is VERY spoiled, and is my fuzzy right hand!
You are lucky to have each other!
I can so relate. My dog has been a source of comfort and smiles throughout the last nearly two years I’ve had her. She brought sunshine into some very dark times for me and her cuddles are the best around. I love reading of others’ companionship with their pets. 🙂 They truly become family!
I totally agree. It’s a love humans can’t always give. Simple and pure.
Yes…well said!
Hello Sarah, it’s nice to meet you, I’m sorry to hear that you also get migraines.
I like hearing about your special dog, I have little loving companions too.
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It’s so wonderful that she’s given you so much comfort and love over the years. And I’m sure that she feels better knowing that she’s with you when you’re in so much pain. She can no doubt feel how she positively affects you.
I’ve had Mobility Service Dog partners since I had my spinal cord injury. When I’m having a really horrible pain day my dogs have been there to help. They intuitively know if I want pressure on my spine or if I need them just to be near. Dogs are one of God’s greatest gifts to us.
Pets are amazing healers and family! Thanks for reading and commenting. Please continue to follow and share
They really are healers and friends sent from above, I agree! I’m so glad you have such wonderful help…mentally and physically I’m sure they provide priceless service.
My first 2 partners are gone now. But they had wonderful lives and fabulous retirement packages. They held down couch cushions and taste-tested treats.
It sounds like they were well loved and had a retirement many of us dream of…..
This was such a heartwarming read. I definitely want a dog that watches over me when I own my own place in future, hopefully. One thing I was wondering though – how much exercise does a dog like yours need? I’m worried I canmt provide in that aspect, but I don’t want a toy dog 😉
I love having a big dog! She is 12 now and can’t go for long walks. Before that we were quite active together and she used to hike with me and if I wasn’t up to it I could at least throw her a ball or let her out in my fenced in yard. With having small children I have always made it a priority to walk around the block for everyone’s health. Even when I’m hurting (unless I’m at a 7-10) I can still walk and it helps to get my blood moving. I hope you get your wish and a pet gives you love and comfort like mine gives me ❤️